Upcoming Important Dates
Tuesday, September 8 – Late Buses start after school.
Tuesday, September 8 – Sign-ups for Chorus and Steel Band
Wednesday, September 9 – School Committee Meeting, Municipal Center 7:00 pm
Friday, September 11 – National Day of Service in remembrance of September 11th
Monday, September 14 – Laptop Devices deployed to students
Monday, September 14 – MLTI Parent Orientation Meeting 6:00 pm GMS Auditorium
Tuesday, September 15 – MLTI Parent Orientation Meeting 6:00 pm GMS Auditorium
Friday, September 18 – School Dance 6:00 – 8:00 pm GMS Gymnasium
Wednesday, September 23 – Early Release Day, students dismissed at 11:10 am
After School Activities
The Gorham Middle School has loads and loads of after school activities during the course of the school year to keep our kids engaged in school and activities. We also provide a late bus on Monday through Thursday that pick students up at the middle school at 4:00 pm and brings the students to areas close to their home.
Please check our daily announcements that Laurie DeLuca publishes each day and posts to the GMS Web Page. The “Daily Notices” is on the left side of the page.
MLTI Parent Orientation Nights
These evening meetings are still a requirement for our students’ parents to attend, if they want their child to be able to bring the laptops home for school use. I recognize that this is a nuisance for many parents, and, especially those parents who have had several children come through the middle school during the MLTI Era. This is a requirement of the lease agreement that all school districts have with the state of Maine, and it is required by School Board Policy.
We will hold three meetings this year. Our first two will be on Monday and Tuesday evening at 6:00 pm in the GMS Auditorium. Recognizing that Monday and Tuesday are the days in which members of our school community may be celebrating the Jewish Holiday of Rosh Hashanah, we will hold a meeting will on Friday evening at 6:00 pm in the GMS Auditorium. This evening event coincides with our first dance of the year, so, if you’d like to bring your child to the dance and stop by the Auditorium for some new information, that would be great. Hopefully, we can get all of the parents to attend these meetings, as required.
We do have some new “wrinkles” this year to the laptop program, as well as bringing back some of the old “wrinkles” that we were unable to use last year. We will also address how parents can help their child become better digital citizens and how to productively and positively use technology.
And, Speaking of laptop technology, we plan to get the devices into the hands of our students beginning on Monday, September 14th. We are developing a schedule, beginning with the 8th grade.
We have been delayed in deploying the devices this year because of an accident that occurred while we were getting the devices imaged over the summer. Unfortunately, the shelf un which we were storing the devices collapsed and caused quite a bit of damage to many of the laptops. We have been able to work with the good folks at MLTI and our intrepid Technology Crew have been working diligently to get the device repaired and ready. Thus our delay in getting the devices out to the students.
An Amazing Resource
Last year, I spoke about a book that I was reading by two dedicated researchers on the very timely topic of bullying called Bullying Beyond the Schoolyard:Preventing and Responding to Cyberbullying by Justin Patchin and Sameer Hinduja. These two have dedicated much of their adult life to the study of bullying behaviors and how we can help young people deal with the bullying behaviors of others.
This last week, Sameer Hinduja used his Twitter account to share one incredible resource for families when they are faced with behaviors that can be considered harassing or threatening. This resource has the email address, web site URL or phone number of many of the social media outlets (some that I have never heard of!) when you or child becomes a victim of bullying of harassing behaviors online.
So, if you have ever wondered “who can I call to report that I am being harassed on (you pick the social media platform), check out this great resource, bookmark it to your computer and use any one of the available outlets if you feel you need to report appropriate behaviors on line.
Day of Remembrance and Service
September 11, 2001 is seared into the memories of most of the parents and guardians of our kids, yet, as hard as this is to believe, the events of that day as but a passage on Wikipedia or a nuclei on Youtube for all of our kids. In our effort to continue to recognize the sacrifices made on that day, and the bravery demonstrated by Americans across the country, we will remember the events of that day with a short moment of remembrance at 8:46am, Friday morning.
Across the state and the country, there are opportunities for students and others to engage in service to others from donating blood to cleaning up a neighbor’s yard, or even, perhaps, bringing a plate of cookies to the fire station as a way of “Thanks for all you do”!
First School Dance of the Year
It is that time of year again when Mr. Parvanta breaks out the “old platters” and his trusty turntable and
“spins” some great tunes for the kids to dance to! And, if you believe that, I have a bridge in Brooklyn I’d love to sell you.
Mr. P, as he is know here, might not even know what a turntable looks like, but he does have his trusty computer that has a complete playlist of the most recent artists 9you know, the ones we don’t know and the kids do!). He has his light show ready and his confetti cannons (not really cannons, just tubes of confetti), now all we need are the kids
The dance begins at 6:00 pm and runs until 8:00, don’t listen to your kids when they tell you it’s later! We do ask that parents be here to pick the kids up at 8:00, and plan on a traffic jam both coming and going. The cost of the dance is $5.00 and the Student Council will be selling treats and refreshments during the dance.
Our dress code is the same as it is for school and, we frown on students thinking that they “have to have a date”, they don’t!
We are also looking for parents who would like to chaperone the dance. We promise that you only need to be in the Gym for a short period of time (not sure if the music and lights constitute cruel and unusual punishment!) and your kids don’t ever have to see you! If you are interested in chaperoning the dance (a once in a lifetime opportunity), please call 222-01220 and let Kristen or Laurie know you’ll be here.
Lost and Found
I am always amazed at the amount of “stuff” that gets left lying around the building with no one making a claim of ownership. Everyday, after lunch, there has to be 3 or 4 lunch bags left outside the building by kids who forget about them when they return from recess.
Mrs. Hanley dutifully picks them up and brings them to the Lost and Found located just outside the cafeteria, thinking that kids will see them when the return to lunch the next day. It’s amazing that these lunch bags, some that are LL Bean quality, just continue to sit in the Lost & Found day-after-day.
If you some one that belongs to you, please give us a call, or better yet, let your child know that you expect them to bring it home the next day.
And, Speaking of Lunch…
I have mentioned here for the past couple of weeks the book I am reading from Jessica Lahey called The Gift of Failure. This is a book for parents and for educators. Ms. Lahey, a mother of 2 children (actually
one is a Middle Schooler!) and a teacher at the middle level, so she is twice blessed!
One particular passage in her book, Ms. Lahey talks about the day she sent her son off to school and then noticed that he had left his homework on the kitchen table. Ms.Lahey agonized, as only a mother can, about should she bring his homework to school and leave it at the office so he wouldn’t have to suffer the consequences with his teacher, of let nature take its course.
I think we are all faced with this dilemma from time-to-time during the upbringing of our children. I know I was when my kids were in school and I always thought what was the big deal, I could just drop it off at the office on my way to wherever. However, I did resist most of the time, and, my kids had to either learn how to remember their stuff or face the consequences.
So, each day, we have some of the greatest parents in the world who look after their kids with incredible kindness and love, and work to make sure that soccer shoes are at school when they have been left behind at home. Lunch boxes, some of which end up in the aforementioned Lost & Found, being brought to school after the student “forgot” them at home. If we apply Ms. Lahey’s reasoning, and I think we should, what are we teaching our kids if they never get to feel the consequences of their inattentiveness!
I will make a promise to you all, any child who forget his lunch, will be fed! I will make sure of that. As for forgotten homework or sports equipment, we will support the child as they work through the consequences and hopefully, help them to devise some strategies to be less forgetful.
Ms. Lahey’s book is filled with some great ideas and techniques and support for parents who think that if they don’t come to their child’s rescue in these situations, they are lousy parents. I think we will all feel fortified as parents by what she writes.
Again, I am willing to coordinate a book group, here at GMS fro any parent that would like to participate in a discussion. Please just let me know.